Nowdays, it's the crowds. we all used to "label" ourselves, label everyone else apparently and we would socialise within our labels and that was that, or maybe that was just America? Nowadays we have "crowds" and "groups" and there's "borders" and "stages" of friendship, and membership within these crowds, and do you know what I find ridiculous about these "crowds"?
With "labels" it wasn't as bad, you see, with "labels" there were reasons for us all to split, we liked different things, listened to different music, wore different clothes, but in our "crowds" we all like the same things, we wear the same clothes, we're friends with the same people and yet we're still defined within our "crowds" or "groups". It's the fashion nowadays, all the girls want to dress like Alexa Chung and the boys want to be Jamie T and everyone listens to mumford and sons.
I don't get it, the girls in another crowd I know are totally nice, and I would quite happily socialise with them, I like what they wear, I like where they go and that's cool, but why don't I? I don't, because I'm not part of their crowd, yes, I'd say hi to them in town, speak to them in school, but I haven't quite reached that stage where I'd get invited to one of their parties, and that's okkkkkk, I don't really know where to go on from here, but I'm just fed up of being part of a "crowd" that two of my best friends aren't in.
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